A Smiling Young Widow
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Dancing in Duality
The week after Tom’s funeral I listened to my mom try to access her credit card account over the phone and fail every one of her own security questions. I laughed, like really laughed. I think I remember this moment so vividly because it was such a foreign thing to experience the deep darkness and…
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Anxiety: The Missing Stage of Grief
This is the title Claire Bidwell Smith gave to her book, and honestly it rings very true –though of course with the caveat that there really are no linear stages of grief, it is a squiggly messy route through it. As I look back, anxiety was a big theme of year two of my grief.…
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The Overwhelming Presence of an Absence
The holidays can hit hard. It’s a bit like the love bombing of Valentine’s day, but this is a long season that seems to almost pressure cook our grief. I’ve been reflecting on how far I’ve come on my grief journey to find a sort of balance, holding both the joy and sadness that this…
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You Are Doing This Right
I sat at a table with three people I barely knew, just chatting. We’d been talking about pets when one of them shared, “I’d choose my dog over my husband any day – that’s really all you need in your life”. I had a moment in my head where I realized ohh she assumes I’m…
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